It was just what I had to do. And I love her. Not to clear my conscious. My ex went back to his wife after being with me, they are actually quite happy together, probably more so now she knows about him. I really do urge you to consider a GP visit very soon. It has now been over 14 years since I uttered the words, "Frankly, my dear, I'm gay. This page may be out of date.
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You are simply a selfish guy who was looking for a fun experiment for your own enjoyment at the expense of your wife. You're going to begin plucking many, MANY painful "stitches" out of your life. Be the first one to comment. This must be so difficult for you. I'm sure you'll do the right thing.
Tell her about your inclination and apologize for marrying her. It's not something that she asked you; she'll feel as if you have been deceiving her the entirety of your relationship and it will slowly erode your marriage until it ends. Tell her sooner rather than later, the longer you put it off the worse it will be. This works best in life in many areas and without fail right here, right now.
Coming Out and Outing: Hi Happy Man, I'm going to go out on a limb and say that there probably isn't a right time per se, although maybe not around Christmas or any major anniversaries etc might be best to avoid? I would do anything for her, for our family. I'm lucky it worked out that way. Thanks very much for replying so promptly and for your words of wisdom. Coming Out Late In Life?